Navigating a divorce can be a complex and emotionally charged process. In family law there are behaviors and situations that can complicate divorce proceedings or lead to unfavorable outcomes. This blog post will discuss some of the most common red flags attorneys warn clients about when going through a divorce in Indiana.
One of the most serious red flags in a divorce case is when one spouse attempts to hide or dissipate assets. This can include transferring money to undisclosed accounts, making large purchases without the other spouse’s knowledge, “gifting” valuable items to friends or family members, and deferring income or bonuses until after the divorce. In Indiana, both parties are required to provide full financial disclosure during divorce proceedings. Hiding assets is not only unethical but can lead to severe legal consequences, including contempt of court charges.
Unfortunately, some divorcing parents may attempt to use their children as leverage in the divorce process. This can manifest as speaking negatively about the other parent to the children, interfering with the other parent’s visitation time, and making unilateral decisions about the children’s education or healthcare. Indiana courts prioritize the best interests of the child in custody decisions. Engaging in these behaviors can severely damage your case and your relationship with your children.
In the digital age, social media has become a significant factor in many divorce cases. Red flags include posting negative comments about your spouse online, sharing photos or status updates that contradict statements made in court, and using social media to harass or intimidate your spouse. Remember, anything posted on social media can potentially be used as evidence in your divorce case. While it is understandable that emotions run high during a divorce, consistently refusing to cooperate or communicate can be a major red flag. This might involve ignoring requests for information or documentation, failing to attend scheduled meetings or mediation sessions, and refusing to negotiate in good faith. In Indiana, courts often look favorably upon parties who demonstrate a willingness to cooperate and communicate effectively.
Divorce is an emotional process, but allowing emotions to drive all your decisions can be detrimental. Red flags include making rash decisions out of anger or spite, refusing reasonable settlement offers, and insisting on fighting over every small detail. Try to approach the divorce process as rationally as possible, focusing on long-term outcomes rather than short-term emotional satisfaction. During the divorce process, the court may issue temporary orders regarding issues like child custody, support payments, or use of marital property. Violating these orders is a serious red flag that can have significant consequences, including being held in contempt of court, fines or other penalties, and negative impact on final divorce settlement.
Recognizing these red flags early in the divorce process can help you avoid potential pitfalls and work towards a more favorable outcome. If you notice your spouse exhibiting any of these behaviors, or if you are tempted to engage in them yourself, it is important to discuss the situation with your attorney immediately. Remember, the goal of a divorce should be to reach a fair and equitable resolution that allows both parties to move forward with their lives. By avoiding these red flags and focusing on constructive, solution-oriented approaches, you can navigate the divorce process more smoothly and set the stage for a positive post-divorce future. The attorneys at Ciyou & Associates, P.C. have long history of family law practice in Indiana. This blog was written by attorneys at Ciyou & Associates, P.C., and this blog is not intended to provide specific legal advice or solicitation of services as this is an advertisement.
