Going through a divorce is already a difficult and emotionally taxing experience, but when children are involved, the process becomes even more complex. In some cases, a child may be called upon to serve as a witness in divorce proceedings in Indiana, potentially exposing them to the legal intricacies and emotional turmoil of the situation. This blog aims to provide guidance and considerations for parents navigating this delicate circumstance.
In Indiana, courts generally aim to minimize the involvement of children in divorce proceedings to protect their emotional well-being. However, there may be instances where a child’s testimony is deemed necessary, particularly in cases involving allegations of abuse, neglect, or when determining custody arrangements based on the child’s best interests. Some scenarios in which a child may be called to testify or provide statements in a divorce case include: (1) allegations of domestic violence or child abuse; (2) disputes over parental fitness or parenting abilities; (3) determining the child’s preference regarding custody or visitation arrangements (depending on age and maturity level); (4) clarifying events or situations that are central to the divorce case.
If your child is called upon to serve as a witness in your divorce proceedings, it is critical to prioritize their emotional and psychological well-being throughout the process. Consider enlisting the help of a child therapist or counselor who can provide emotional guidance and coping strategies for your child before, during, and after their involvement in the proceedings. Child therapists or counselors are often used as witnesses to avoid the child having to testify in divorce matters as well. It is important to prepare the child. Work with your attorney and the professionals involved to ensure your child understands the process and what will be expected of them in an age-appropriate manner. Maintain open communication with your child, provide reassurance, and create a safe space for them to express their feelings and concerns. Advocate for measures that limit your child’s exposure to the legal proceedings, such as allowing their testimony to be recorded or conducted in camera. Ultimately, if your child expresses discomfort or distress about testifying, communicate these concerns to your attorney and the court, as their well-being should be the top priority.
While involving a child in divorce proceedings is never an ideal situation, there may be circumstances where it becomes necessary. By prioritizing your child’s well-being, seeking professional support, and working closely with your legal team, you can help minimize the potential emotional impact and ensure your child’s voice is heard in a sensitive and age-appropriate manner. One of the more common ways children participate in the divorce proceedings is through an in-camera interview, also known as an interview in chambers. Under Indiana law, “(b) [t]he court may interview the child in chambers to assist the court in determining the child’s perception of whether parenting time by the noncustodial parent might endanger the child’s physical health or significantly impair the child’s emotional development.”
Navigating the complexities of having a child witness in divorce proceedings can be challenging, both legally and emotionally. It is essential to seek the guidance of an experienced family law attorney who can advise you on the legal implications, protect your child’s rights, and advocate for their best interests throughout the process. We are here to help you with your divorce matter with children involved. The attorneys at Ciyou & Associates, P.C. have ample experience in divorce proceedings that involve children and the potential of child testimony throughout Indiana. This blog was written by attorneys at Ciyou & Associates, P.C., and this blog is not intended as specific legal advice or solicitation of services as this is an advertisement.